What a fun filled day!

Kok, Al and i met up at Marina Square after my work. Though it was already late afternoon, we still managed to enjoy ourselves thoroughly! Kok suggested watching a movie while AL suggested bowling. In the end we had neither because we eventually agreed on the thing i suggested- arcade! Wahaha... We basically fought our soccer skills on the Virtua Striker 4 playing machine and it was really intensifying as we took turns to knock each other out of the game. I think it's very exciting for a 50 cents worth per game.


Afterwhich we had heart to heart talks regarding relationships. It was the first time the three of us would actually chat about this kinda thing. Hey i am not stereotyping here but normally only the girls do it lah. But the experience and the after feelings at the end of our conversations are simply as good. Perspectives shared about relationships and what we have been through not only enable us to get to know each other better but also help me to deal with relationships more effectively. Personally i think break-ups need to be clean instead of letting it hanging in the air with strings attached. The feeling sucks..


Right now, i rank relationship on par with my close friends. In the past i think i have been spending too much time on my ex-girlfriend, neglecting my clique as a result. Sometimes i think i have given in too much to love, tiring myself out and changing myself to fit the bill for an ideal boyfriend. It's time i think for myself, pursue what i want for my future and finding someone who really suits me. One who can share the same thinking in our relationship and give me the support when i need it. I think i will really appreciate that more than anything like gifts or whatsoever. Though now i believe there is no fairy tale ending in love, as long as both parties are will to work hard for it, i think there will be nothing too hard to overcome. Think Tony Leung and his wife Carina Lau. Tony Leung had said in an interview that he and his wife have totally contrasting personalities but they have managed to keep the relationship going strong for twenty plus years already. I was so impressed when i heard about it. I tell myself there is nothing too hard to overcome if we work towards one common goal. Be it now or the future i will still stand by this... :)